Yesterday we received a notice from the court. It has been ordered that due to his present mental status it is in the best interest of Evan to have no visitation with Eliza at this time. It did not specify if or when her rights would be restored. Nor did it acknowledge any of the other “concerns” that she had.
A part of me feels that she got what she asked for. She was not at all truthful in her letter and had no reason to write it in the first place. I felt like she wanted us to be punished for not giving into her every whim and desire. I tried to warn her that this could happen. However, she told me that “no judge would take my rights away.”
There is a side of me also that feels sorry for her. I know she will not take this news in stride. I know it will be hard for her. I’m sure she will blame us somehow, some way.
But she needs to understand the severity of Evan’s mental state. I don’t know if this will help her realize it, however, this ruling takes a lot of pressure off of us. She is currently in solitary confinement and I believe that this will give her time to think without the opinions of the other women influencing her.
Regardless of her reaction, I am just glad to have this matter finally resolved.