I thought this article was thought provoking. Sometimes we are guilty of this. I remember when my husband would wash the dishes and leave water all over the counter. That is what caught my attention–the water and not the perfectly washed dishes.
Let’s try speaking words of encouragement to our spouses and see things in the best light possible. Remember Proverbs 15:4 A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit.