As you all know Kierra was scheduled to have surgery this week. Last week Christine made many attempts to change Husband’s mind and let Kierra go home with her. Husband assured her that Kierra would be just fine going home with us.
Christine was relentless in her pleas. She commented on the fact that she could take off work…so can we. She said she knows how to work the drain that Kierra would receive because she did it the last time…she had to be shown and the doctor can show us. She went on to say that she has to sign Kierra in and out of the hospital…okay she can still do so and Kierra will still leave with us. Then she said that what if Kierra needs to go back to the hospital for any reason…we are capable of getting her there and will call you immediately. Besides that we have two running vehicles. (Christine’s car has been “down” since Christmas. Husband has had to take Kierra home at the end of her visits since then. Yet Christine and her older daughter drive it all the time.)
I knew Christine would not be happy with Kierra coming to our home. Why? Well her words have come to bite her. Christine swore she would never step foot in our house. She even told Kierra this the other night while they were having a heated discussion. Kierra informed us that Christine ranted about how Kierra didn’t love her. How Kierra loved us more than her. Why can’t Kierra just come home and be with her. Kierra told Christine that she loved all of her family and this time she wanted to be with us.
Low and behold Husband received a call the next day from Christine but he missed the call. Later that evening he was talking to Kierra on the phone when she broke the news. Christine canceled the surgery. She told Kierra that the doctor went on medical leave. Kierra asked her if another doctor could perform the surgery. Christine said she would prefer that her doctor do the surgery since the last one was a success. Christine said she didn’t know when the doctor would be back. Yeah right!!! Christine canceled the surgery because she doesn’t want to come to our house.
When this whole ordeal came about I told Husband that Christine would probably cancel the surgery. That is the only way she could assure Kierra not come home with us. I’m pretty sure she will rescheule it when it’s on her time. But that is not even the issue. The problem I have is that Kierra needs the surgery. It’s not a life or death situation but the sooner she gets it done the better for Kierra. If prolonged she could have a situation where she would need reconstructive surery.
We do not have a probelm with Christine coming to our home. She’s the one with the problem. We also do not have a problem going to her home. When we have gone she goes into another room. The last time Kierra had surgery she made it difficult for us to visit with Kierra. She made a big stink about HER family and friends being there. Well we are her family too! Christine also wants to portray to her friends that she does it all. So she doesn’t want us around when she is entertaining. This is not about her, it’s all about Kierra.
The next day Husband had to pick up Kierra from school because she had a headache and couldn’t stop crying. Kierra told me that she was tired of Christine getting upset with her about everything. She said she is tired of the headaches. I told her that she doesn’t have to keep all those emotions inside. I told her that when things are really heavy in my heart I talk to God. I go off in a quiet place and just talk to Him. She could do the same and feel much better by letting it go.
Does Christine not care about Kierra’s health? It doesn’t seem like it to me. She is not concerned with her mental health either. Kierra clings to us whenever she is over. Friday night she layed on me all evening. We ended up falling asleep on the couch and Husband had to wake us up to go to bed. Whenever husband leaves to run errands she is right by his side.
Yesterday before she went home Kierra said she was looking forward to spring break. My brother, his family, and my mom will be here. She said she can not wait to see my nephews. She also went on and on about doing different activites. I just hope Christine doesn’t start in on her this week. Kierra needs a break from the drama.