I knew that Eliza would find a way to make the court order our fault. Her brother left a gruff message on my cell phone demanding that my husband give him a call ASAP. Of course, my husband did not return his call and does not plan to. He is not going to answer to him about anything regarding his kids. He is not a concerned uncle, he is a dangerous goon with a terrible attitude and a notorious reputation.
I can only imagine what Eliza told her brother. I’m sure she told him that we have been telling the therapist bad things about her which is why she (the therapist) wrote the letter to the court. I know she failed to mention how she intiated the court order with her letter.
It wouldn’t matter anyhow. Her brother is a male version of her—only worse. When Eliza was first jailed she did not want us to have the boys. She wanted them to stay with her family. Needless to say, my husband wanted his children. Her brother refused to surrender the kids and spent a lot of time threatening us for trying to get them. After two months he literally dropped them off at our doorstep because his girlfriend couldn’t handle caring for the boys.
However, that does not stop him from attempting to interfere on her behalf whenever she directs him to do so. We have had our home phone number changed and had our alarm system upgraded since he has forced his way into our lives. Many of our friends, relatives, coworkers, and the staff at the boys’ schools (he has been banned from both Ethan and Evan’s school and was actually arrested at Ethan’s for trepassing and demanding information) know how much he has harassed us. I like to let people know in case something happens to us the police will know exactly where to go.
I am afraid that he might just show up at our doorstep. Being that my husband works late, the odds are it would only be me and the kids at home. If he shows up, we have decided that I should immediatedly call the police. I am not going to waste my time explaining anything to him. He is not welcome at our home under any circumstances.
I really wish that Eliza and her family would let us be. But I am afraid that will never happen…